Timeline/World: Through the Looking Glass – Atheria 3rd Generation
Characters: Ambrose Storm-Daii
Race: Halfling – Demon / Human / Strife
Age: 43, physically about 27
Current residence: Atheria City, Eresiel
Final Word Count: 801 words
I wasn’t an easy person to spend time around when I was healing. It’s been years now, but I still think back on it. I think back on the patience my parents had—a given, at times I feel like, because they’re my parents—I think on the patience Silver had. I think about Emma who was a little too young, it feels like, to really be much of a bother the way my brother and parents felt like.
Now, the thing is, I know that none of them were bothers. The issue with this is that I was being a big grump and I know it. I’d like to think that I had valid excuses for being a grump to, like, you know, the fact that I’d had my leg caught in a bear trap and nearly completely ripped off. My genes made it so that time in the regen chamber was pretty much moot, so I was on painkillers, and I had to take things so.
I’m not going to lie, I know that I wasn’t easy to deal with at first. It wasn’t so much that I was in constant pain—though the painkillers only helped so much—but it was the fact that I couldn’t really go anywhere. I was stuck on bed rest and, once I was strong enough, I was stuck in a chair and none of that helped me in feeling like I could at least spend time on my own.
Several times, I know that I looked at my parents, I looked at my brother, and I told them that I didn’t want them around. I did manage, at some point, to tell them that it wasn’t because I didn’t enjoy their company, but that it was best enjoyed in small doses and, as I was healing up, it was the best way to look at things. I was miserable and I didn’t want them near me, trying to help me feel better about things. That’s just not how it all should have been happening; at least not as far as my brain was concerned.
Emma was different. Emma, I did all I could to not snap at her. She was just way too young to really know any better, but I know that Silver and our parents did all they could to make sure she didn’t bother me too often. When she did come to see me and when she stayed too long for my liking, I just endured it. She didn’t deserve my being snarky to her, she wouldn’t have understood it.
Not that it made it any better that I was snarky to the rest of my family, but it is all in the past. I feel as though we’ve managed to overcome this particular issue, and no one seems to hold it against me anymore. If they did, I’d let it go, honestly. I know how shitty of a person I was back then. I know that I don’t really deserve any of their forgiveness though if I were to say that out loud, I’m sure that a certain someone I’m sharing my life with and have given my heart to would roll her eyes at me. I don’t think I need her rolling her beautiful eyes at me at any point so it’s all right.
Healing, in any way, shape or form, is just a process that needs to be handled as it comes. You can’t really hold people responsible for things they might have said during that time. I was a miserable one while I was healing up and I acted that way towards others. As I did get better—though there was that slip back into hell after the issues downtown—I did start to be able to behave better.
In a way, though, I really do think it sort of took her asking me to move in with her to start the final healing process. I’m not going to lie, there’s a good bit of healing that happens physically but there’s a lot of healing that was needed mentally and emotionally too and I hadn’t made it to that step yet. I’ve learned a lot while I was healing up and I’ve learned even more after I moved in with her. A change of pace and space was pretty much what I needed, in the long run.
Looking back, I’m not ready yet to not feel a good bit of shame at the way I treated everyone around me during that time, even though they were only trying to be there for me and be a comforting presence. I know that I might eventually be able to laugh at it, but that hasn’t happened yet, and I don’t know when it will.
Time will tell.