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Current Date: September 30, 2022
Character: Cody Taggart
Race: Human
Age: 32
Current residence: Lake Charles, Louisiana
Since we moved here years back, Aidan hasn’t really had to play shining knight in armour to anyone that I can really think of. We’ve turned that need to protect and keep others safe in fostering and we still do. We still foster kittens as they need and, since our first set, we’ve actually ended up adopting two. They were from two different fostering moments, but they got along superbly well.
Earlier this year, as we were doing our yearly cleaning—yeah, I know, doing our clean-up in autumn instead of spring, what a pair of weirdos—we located some of our older photo albums and yeah, we let ourselves be swept up into looking at them. It delayed the cleaning for half a day, but I think it was worth it.
It’s not that we don’t locate this album every year, but there are times when we clean up and we’ll look at things that we haven’t really touched in a long time and we’ll put them away, then, the following year, we’ll be looking through old boxes, find those things and ask ourselves if we’re leaving them in the boxes or taking them out again. As far as photo albums are concerned, we never really throw those out, but we’ve thrown out old trinkets and things that we felt no real connection to anymore in this way.
This album was fairly old in itself. It was a joint album we’d put together after we started to be serious about our dating, photos of us as kids, photos of us as teenagers, together, alone, with separate friends though Aidan had more of those than I ever did since I was so self-conscious. I’m sure that a lot of people out there would be shaking their heads at the idea of joining baby and childhood pictures in the same album as your spouse. So many people separate or divorce, then you have to split everything back up, go through bad memories and the rest.
The thing is, though, I’m not worried about that happening, so it’s fine. I mean, it could. There’s that whole never-say-never thing that some people go by, but we grew up together, he got me out of trouble a few times, I got him fixed up when he’d show up in my apartment all beaten up because he’d stepped in to help someone else, always being that beautiful shining knight.
We’ve had our ups and downs, but our pathways remain together.
As we look through the old photos, we’re reminded of things we’d mostly left behind. At least, since we moved away from where we’d grown up, several states away, and then here. We still keep up with our families, we visit a couple of times a year, but I don’t think that either one of us misses the old place.
It was a bad neighbourhood, I’m sure this is why Aidan turned out the way he did. Protecting his friends, protecting those he saw as innocent and helpless, protecting me as the need arose. He didn’t come home battered often but when he did, it was to my door and I’m the one who fixed him up because it seemed to be the way we were. It seemed to be the way we were doing things, especially after we’d moved out of our parents’ places.
I was there, now and again, the following morning when he’d check in on the people he’d helped. Most of the time, it was just a quiet little moment to see if they were all right, but there were other times when he was angry because things had really turned out bad and he’d get on their cases. Asking them if getting everyone into trouble had been worth it because he sure as hell didn’t seem to have been, in his opinion.
People respected him. The ones who didn’t know him couldn’t understand it, but the ones who did, fell into two categories. The ones who steered clear of him, and the ones who were happy to see him when he was around. I don’t know how he managed to keep up with it all through the years, to me, it felt like it could have turned out just so exhausting, in the end.
Since we’ve been here, that hasn’t really been a thing. We do have a few friends, people we see a bit more often than others, but it seems as though, as adults, we get into less trouble than we used to as kids. I know that this is possibly just to do with us because I know that certain adults will get into even more trouble than they might have ever done so before in their lives.
The photo album? In the long run, it still went back into the box. We don’t really need to sit down and coo over these old photos often, once in a blue moon is more than enough. We did finish our yearly cleaning within the scheduled time we’d set for ourselves, so I was happy about that.