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Current Date: April 28, 2023
Character: Grief aka Aven
Race: Emotion – Grief
Age: 34, physically about 22
Current residence: Moss Beach, California
I still take a few classes at the university but not that many. I’m still not really sure what I might really be interested in learning, not in the long run, and it just has given me something to do when I feel as though I’m just twiddling my thumbs, waiting for time to pass. It isn’t all that common; there’s plenty for me to do. Between walking the big fluffy dork and helping out around the house, downtime tends to be welcome and deserved. Still, learning things at school is nice.
I feel as though I might just manage, at one point or another, to find something that really appeals to me and then I’ll register possibly for full-time classes. It isn’t as though I don’t have all the time in the world for that, anyway.
As it stands, there is a girl in some of my classes that has left me so baffled that it still bothers me now, even though it’s been weeks at this point. Last I saw her, it was before the holiday season and yet, I still have passing thoughts about the whole situation and there are days when I think back about her behaviour, and I’m left scratching my head in confusion.
In a way, there are times when I wonder if I’m part of a minority or if maybe, we’re sort of evenly split. The people who do take their time when making decisions and the ones who are so hasty that there are plenty of regrets to be had when things don’t turn out the way they were expected, or something doesn’t work out well in the long run.
This is the case with the girl—a woman, really—whose behaviour just confuses me to no end. She has to be in her mid-thirties, that, in itself, is not an issue, I’m certainly in that age group myself, even though I know I look a decade younger, and I’ll never look any older. What bothers me is that I feel as though that, by that point, she’s had at least a good few years’ worths of life experience to base herself on as far as decisions are concerned but it never seems to be enough.
I’ve lost track of how often she’s made hasty decisions, later regretting them, but claiming that it was never going to stop her. It was just how she was and that was all there was to it. Like opting to get a new tattoo—a tramp stamp, I’ve heard some say—after meeting a guy she claimed was going to be her ever-after prince charming. Except that yeah, she got the tattoo a week after meeting him, and only a few days after that, he was out of her life.
I haven’t seen that tattoo and I’m not all that interested in seeing it either; what I do know is that his name is probably somewhere in there and, well, what are the chances she’ll meet another guy with the exact same name, really. That or somehow the guy in question comes back into her life.
This is just one of the many things that I’ve heard about—things she discusses freely as though they hold no consequences in her life—that have come out of hasty decisions that she thought were great ones at the time. I’m sure they were possibly very great back then but looking back now, they clearly were not.
Still, she keeps at it. I’m sure there’s a reason behind it all. I’m sure there’s something in her mind that leads her to the belief that those hasty decisions are the best thing ever.
In a way, I think that I might just be worrying for her, in some way, even though I don’t know her that well, because one of those decisions might just end up taking things too far and when that happens… what next? Does it lead to something even worse than being inked with the name of someone who isn’t in your life with that ink being in a rather in-your-face spot—at least for a potential new partner? Somehow, I get this feeling that if she had a friend who was more than willing to jump off a bridge, she’d be the kind of person to jump right after that friend because, well, the friend has to be right in their decision, right?
I really don’t understand the people who think this way, but I admit that my socializing has not been great up until the time when we were old enough to come up here and out of the rather secluded spot where we grew up. So, all of us are possibly a little stunted and I can’t be the only one who finds myself baffled in certain situations. All in all, I do the best with what I have, though.