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Current Date: September 29, 2022
Character: Hakim Saab
Race: Human
Age: 37
Current residence: Yamanashi Region, Japan
It only took a few months before I had a small apartment in the building where the staff that stays year-round lived. I was more than ready to move back onto the school grounds. Everything in the little apartment I’d shared with Nathan reminded me of him and I was struggling to deal with his passing. Jacomus, thankfully, was patient with me. I know that he went through his own period of grief when he lost his daughter so many years ago and I felt as though I could trust him with helping me with my own.
Not that I took up much of his time. I only worked longer hours at the library because being alone was too hard for me to handle and I didn’t want to be a bother to him and the others he has added to his family over the last year or so. It has been such a change to see him smile as much as he does. It’s soothing in its own strange way. I might not be very social, but I still watched, and I still saw.
Much as I see when fretful parents come and have a look at the school before they decide to drop their kids off. This school is special, it is a fair distance off from most things and, well, the waiting list is long. I have lost count of the number of parents whose paths I have crossed while they were touring, their eyes the size of a saucer. Working here is a gift, even if certain days are harder than others, even for a lowly librarian such as myself.
Jacomus would roll his eyes at me if he heard me speak of myself this way, but I still struggle a little with the ups and downs of the loss of my partner. It was worse back in March as that was the anniversary of it all, but I’d like to think I still have made progress about everything.
I used to have dreams of Nathan. I know they were dreams more than memories because the Nathan in the dream wasn’t like my Nathan. There were similarities but they still were different enough that the dreams left me confused more than broken-hearted. The Nathan in my dream spoke of how I needed to prove to him that he could trust me with the life of others I had never met. Others whose names meant nothing to me. Others that, at times, I think were people he might have met on the other side.
Death changes people, right? It must. There are days when I believe in the afterlife. I believe in souls being reborn, I believe in ghosts, spirits and a lot of things in-between. These are the times when I feel as though the dreams make some sort of sense. If I refuse to open my mind to these possibilities, the dreams only baffle me and make me cling all the more to the fact that my heart feels as though it may never be whole ever again.
Nathan saw me for who I was—who I am. I know that I’ve changed in the years since, but he saw me as I was. The skirt-wearing effeminate man who needed just a little boost as far as his confidence was concerned. I was comfortable hiding in the folds of these long, floor-length skirts. They flowed about, giving me the freedom to hide. I know it might sound strange, but it was how I felt.
I’ve outgrown this part of my life now, it seems. I don’t know if it is so much Nathan’s departure or something else. It might have happened before, and I wouldn’t really be all that surprised. It is hard to remember when my wardrobe changed into something a little more masculine. I believe that most of my outfits are fairly androgynous in nature and my long hair hardly helps when people try to gender me.
The students at the school have long since stopped trying. Most know, most likely from hearing Jacomus speak of me, at times, during the assemblies, but I have no issues with that either. I am who I am, I feel as though that should never change. I may be all the more introverted since Nathan was taken from my life, but it doesn’t change who I truly am in the long run.
I try my best. While it has been a year and a half at this point, I have days when it is still very difficult to go through the day without thinking about him or feeling my heart constrict because I do miss him so terribly much. I do not believe it has had an impact on my work and Jacomus has not told me anything on the subject, so I will keep on moving forward slowly.