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Current Date: June 21, 2023
Character: Surya Chandar
Race: Human
Age: 42
Current residence: Yamanashi Region, Japan
I don’t even know why I ever bothered with this blind date. Though, I suppose I should phrase it differently. I don’t know why I agreed to it. Had it come from Ravi, perhaps I wouldn’t even have questioned it but remains the fact that I know it never would have come from my brother. It takes him time to warm up to anyone and the idea that he would warm up enough to someone to set me up on a blind date with them is absolutely preposterous.
I shouldn’t let it bother me that much, the man is never going to come into my life in this particular way ever again and that should be that, but I am bothered because of his clear delusions about his reputation and how he had to uphold it frustrated me to that point. The date lasted all of twenty minutes before I had my fill.
Can I really see this as a blind date? It was through a dating app, certainly, but it wasn’t really one of those apps where you can chat away with the other person and then exchange information no. It was even more informal than this. Fill in the necessary basic info, input a photo—so I knew what he looked like—some other stuff like age, a few things that turn you on, some that turn you off and off you go. The time you’d be willing to meet up with a potential partner and the place. All you see of people are things like these. So sure, swipe, swipe, swipe, click on some you might be interested in, and then wait for an answer. If they agree to the invite, off you go.
It’s a weird app, I guess, but I’d heard a few colleagues talk about it and I was curious.
Since the guy was one that I’d reached out to first, if you would, it was my location that was picked and the time. So, I was there, it was a little sort of bistro with outside seating. I saw him come up and, well I’m not gonna lie, sure, he was pretty good-looking. I still stand out like a sore thumb out here but that’s okay, he had no issues spotting me and sitting with me.
The moment he opened his mouth, though, I knew I was going to regret it. No hi, no hello. He started straight in on facts about his little self-centred soul, this is my name, this is me, this is what I want, this is what I like. I’m sure the gist of the conversation—one-sided, I barely got in any word—can be easily understood. Someone certainly liked to hear himself talk.
I was willing to give it a pass so long as we could possibly make it work in bed but about yeah, twenty or so minutes in, some water on the table and a coffee on my hands because I felt as though I needed that energy, he starts telling me about how he may or may not have a reputation and he wouldn’t say that it’s a good one.
The look he gave me was actually one full of challenges, as though somehow, he was trying to prove to someone that he was best not being argued with and that his word was law or whatever bullocks he thought he was going to spew. Needless to say, I might have scoffed at him and told him that I wished him the best in whatever it was he was interested in but that we just weren’t going to work out.
The idiot tried to physically keep me at the little table, and he very quickly learned to regret it. I was on my quiet, slightly frustrated way home shortly after that and I stopped for a bowl of ramen at a little place that’s not very far from home. I needed comfort food and that was going to be it. I crossed my twin on my way in, he gave me a single look and probably saw my own sour one and didn’t ask for any details, it was probably for the best.
As of my getting home, I deleted the app and told myself that if I was interested in having a little fun, I’d find it by going out there and mingling and that was my best option. I can’t believe I tried the app. Now, I know that one failure doesn’t mean that every other man I could have swiped on would have been just as bad but, you know what, I’ll just pass. It seems the better option to not have to deal with so few means of actually getting to know the other person at least a little more beforehand.